Things I’ve Learned Since Becoming a Business Owner
Owning a business isn’t just about having a logo, an ABN, or a booking system. It’s a soul expansion. A personal development journey disguised as entrepreneurship.
When I stepped into business ownership, I thought I was just creating a beautiful salon experience. I didn’t realise I was about to meet every version of myself—the confident one, the scared one, the overachiever, the people pleaser, the boundary-breaker, the healer, the creative, the leader.
Here’s what I’ve learned so far (and I’m still learning, every single day):
1. You Can’t Pour From an Empty Cup
At first, I thought hustle meant success. I wore my burnout like a badge of honour. But I quickly realised—if I’m depleted, everything I create feels heavy. My clients feel it. My kids feel it. I feel it.
Now, I build in time for rest, ritual, and nervous system regulation. Slowing down actually helps me show up more powerfully.
2. Boundaries Are Self-Respect in Action
Saying “no” used to feel terrifying. What if they leave? What if they think I’m difficult?
But I’ve learned that clear boundaries are loving. They protect my energy, honour my time, and teach others how to treat me.
Whether it’s my pricing, my time off, or my energy online—I get to choose what feels aligned.
3. You Don’t Have to Do It All Alone
For a long time, I thought I had to wear all the hats—stylist, admin, cleaner, coach, marketer, therapist, tech support. It nearly broke me.
I’ve since learned to outsource, collaborate, and invest in support when I can. Asking for help isn’t weakness. It’s strategy.
4. Your Energy Is Your Brand
People don’t just book a service—they book an energy.
The vibe in your space. The way you speak. The intention behind your offer.
Your authenticity is your marketing. So if it doesn’t feel true in your body—it’s a no.
5. You Will Doubt Yourself—and That’s Okay
Imposter syndrome? I’ve felt it.
Fear of failure? Yep.
Wobbly moments when I’ve thought, “Who am I to do this?” Absolutely.
But those moments have taught me how to come back to my why. They’ve built resilience. And they’ve shown me how to lead even when I’m scared.
6. Success Doesn’t Look Like One Thing
Sometimes success looks like a fully booked week.
Sometimes it looks like being able to pick my kids up early and say yes to rest.
I’ve learned to define success on my own terms—not what Instagram says, or what someone else is doing.
7. Your Business Will Mirror Your Inner World
If I’m scattered, overwhelmed, and disconnected—my bookings reflect that.
When I’m clear, grounded, and energetically aligned—everything flows.
Business has become one of my greatest spiritual teachers. It keeps me accountable to doing the inner work.
8. Your Evolution is Allowed
You’re allowed to pivot. To change your mind. To outgrow old offers. To raise your prices. To reinvent yourself.
You don’t have to stay the version of you that someone once loved, booked, or followed.
Your business should grow with you, not hold you hostage.
I didn’t become a business owner because I wanted control. I became a business owner because I wanted freedom—freedom to serve in my own way, to choose who I work with, and to create a life that actually feels like me.
And while this journey hasn’t always been easy, it’s been the most empowering, healing, and expansive thing I’ve ever done.
If you’re walking this path too—I see you. You’re not alone. And your version of success is so deeply valid.
With love,
Becc Watts
Founder | Holistic Hair Therapist | Business Mentor